If you’ve had a break up in the past, you know how hard it can be. Breakups can give a horrible sense of rejection, failure, and sadness – especially if you were the one who got dumped. Even if you were the dumper and not the dumpee, doubts can surface and make you feel as if you’ve made the wrong decision. This is because our minds are programmed to think of the good times we had with a person, rather than the differences, arguments, and bad times you had with them. I always find that once a couple gets into the habit of breaking up and then getting back together, it’s unlikely they will ever go back to the way things were when they were good. But should you try to get back with your ex boyfriend? Tell him you made a mistake or beg for him back? Read on:
First of all, you should never beg for a man back. It’s not what ladies do. Regardless of how sad you are about this break up, never let it get to that. You might also be thinking of ways you can make your ex boyfriend miss you badly. This can work, but you should never make it look desperate. Nothing is more repelling than a desperate female.
I don’t know your own personal situation, so I can’t give you exact instructions on what to do. However, I can make a good guess.
What to Do if You Broke Up With Him
If you broke up with your boyfriend and are having doubts about it now, you need to ask yourself some questions and be honest. Do you really regret this decision, or are you just feeling a little lonely? You should know the difference! Did your boyfriend enrich your life? Did he treat you with respect? Was he affectionate towards you? If he didn’t make your life any better with him in it, then it’s best if you stay away. You broke up with him for a reason, so seriously consider why you did it and whether you’re willing to put up with the issue.
What to Do if He Broke Up With You
If your boyfriend broke up with you, first of all you need to give him some space. If you think you’re right for each other, then you need to address the reasons he broke up with you and think of ways you can make them right. If you can’t do anything about them, then it’s unlikely he will get back with you. Making promises to fix something is one thing, but actually doing them is another. Make sure you follow through with any promises you’ve made. However, if he doesn’t seem interested in your apology, you’re probably better off moving on as best you can.
Sometimes in relationships, you get to a stage where you split up or argue about the same things over and over again. This is because certain issues are not being addressed. You can’t brush things under the carpet, so try to communicate with one another properly. If you can’t do that, you shouldn’t be together.